~ R. U. Wacko
Many marry thinking they can change the person they are marrying. Good luck. If a person hasn’t grown up or needs a psychiatrist when you marry them, they will probably not grow up and will probably still need a psychiatrist after you marry them.
Having a baby will not change much in a spouse’s behavior. They may get less sleep and have to learn to change diapers.
Waiting for the kids to leave home so your marriage may improve is probably not an answer. The kids are probably what is keeping the marriage together. The kids are going to leave an unhappy household as fast as they can and you will be left with the same broken relationship.
See R U WACKO at GaryBahr.com